This week, the group continued exploring Chapter One, “Step Six,” focusing on pages 18–24. We spent time discussing the idea of being truly prepared to let go of our character defects. Readiness, as we discovered, unfolds in stages—beginning with awareness, followed by acceptance, and finally, surrender. Surrender isn't passive; it's a conscious and intentional act. It requires us to recognize what we're releasing and to take steps that support that release. Our actions need to reflect our willingness, making surrender a lived and ongoing choice rather than a fleeting thought.
"Step Six is about facing ourselves—often the hardest person to be honest with. Practicing honesty with others may become second nature, but being honest with ourselves can still be a challenge. I’ve noticed how quickly I can claim I’m ready to change, yet deep down, I know I’ll have to ask myself, ‘Really?’ That self-questioning, though uncomfortable, is part of the journey. It keeps me grounded and helps me grow in genuine willingness, no longer glossing over the work required."
When we’re trapped in self-centered thinking, it often leads us to dwell in self-pity, simmer in resentments, burn with envy, or tense up with fear and anxiety—especially when our thoughts are stuck on “poor me.” To move beyond that cycle, daily meditation and prayer can be powerful tools, helping us process and release these character defects with intention and grace.
As we continue working through Steps Six and Seven, we open ourselves up to living with purpose, freedom, and authenticity. We stop just existing—and begin truly becoming.
What does true willingness to change look like for you in this season of your life?